I’m so excited to share my latest “frugal” adventure! 🙂
Last month I decided to tidy up my wardrobe. I had so many clothes that they didn’t fit in my wardrobe anymore. I wear most of my clothes frequently, but there are also a lot of clothes that I don’t wear anymore, or that I even never have worn. For example, some of my clothes are just not my style anymore. These are clothes that I still have from when I was 20 (I can still fit in them so I never got rid of them). Then there are some clothes that never fitted that well. These are mostly clothes that I had bought very cheap in sales and from which I had made myself believe that they would fit better at home (now I know better, if they don’t look that good in the store, they won’t look good at home, even if they are very cheap). Then I also have lots of clothes that are just worn out but that I never wanted to get rid of because I loved wearing them. They were/are my favourite pieces, but they don’t look that decent anymore. I always made myself believe that they for example are still perfect to wear on a lazy Sunday at home.
So it was time for me to tidy up my wardrobe and organise my clothes (and my accessories). I obliged myself to organise one shelf/drawer a day, and to be very strict for myself (everything that I didn’t wear anymore had to go!). It was very hard to get rid of the first piece. I kept finding excuses and situations to wear that certain piece that I had not worn for so many years (a lazy Sunday at home, when I have to paint, to work in the garden, a dress up party … ). But once I found the strength to get rid of that first piece, the rest followed really soon. I ended with an organised wardrobe, with clothes that fit and are my style and that I often wear. I even rediscovered a lot of clothes that I had forgotten.
I also ended up with a huge pile of clothes and accessories that I wanted to get rid of. I organised everything in three piles: damaged/not wearable, worn out/wearable, as good as new.
The pile of damaged/not wearable clothes was luckily not that big. Most of these clothes had small holes in them. Now I finally threw these clothes away. Some of them I cut in pieces and made rags of them. I also kept one very nice dress with the intention of making a skirt of it (only the top is damaged).
Then there was the pile worn out/wearable clothes. This was a big pile of worn out clothes that are still very wearable. I donated these clothes to charity.
The third pile was the pile as good as new clothes. This pile was not super big, but not really small either. These were the clothes that I never (or almost never) had worn and thus were still in perfect condition. I hesitated to sell them, but I did not really know where and how … So then I thought that it maybe would be a nice idea to organise a clothes swap party. I had read about it and thought it would be fun and a good excuse to hang out with my friends.
If you have never heard of it, a clothes swap party is a party/evening where everyone brings clothes or accessories that she (or he) never wears anymore. Then you just start swapping clothes. What for one person doesn’t fit anymore can fit perfectly for someone else. There even exist big swap events where you receive coupons for the clothes that you brought, and these coupons can then be used to take other clothes (for example 1 coupon is one piece). Obviously we kept it a bit more informal here ;).
I just organised a low key swap party at home with a couple of friends where no one was obliged to take any clothes with her and where everyone could take home whatever she wants. I wanted a fun “ladies evening” (and of course get rid of stuff). It was the first time that I organised such a party so I had no idea what to expect. When I had invited my friends, they were quite reluctant (they did not know whether they had clothes that they never wore, and if the had they would be ashamed of them…). But they were in for a “ladies evening” with bubbles (sparkling wine), chocolate, and good company! (The clothes were a side issue).
To my biggest surprise, everyone had brought a big bag of clothes and accessories. With all these clothes, shoes, handbags, scarves, earrings, … my living room was transformed in a small store (at that point my boyfriend took refuge upstairs in his office. The combination of six ladies and a big pile of clothes was too much). So then we started swapping things. We had all different sizes and shapes which turned out to be perfect. What for person A didn’t fit anymore, fitted for person B.
The evening turned out to be a BIG success! Everyone had found several clothes and/or accessories that she liked. I found:
- 1 nice skirt that had gotten too small for some else (in my favourite colour)
- 1 skinny jeans that had gotten too small for some else
- 1 pair of new shoes. They were too small for the person who had bought it, but she was not able to return them to store.
- 2 scarves. Ok I already have lots of scarves, but no white or yellow one … And I wear one almost every day
- 1 pair of earrings
It was a fun evening with friends, everyone got new clothes (I don’t need to go shopping for a while), I got rid of a lot of stuff and was happy that I made some friends happy with them (The clothes that no one wanted went to charity).
Apart from these things, the party also created an awareness with all of us. The cleaning of our wardrobe, swapping clothes and talking about it (why they didn’t fit (anymore), why we never wore it ….) helped to raise some awareness of shopping and buying new things. I for sure will think twice before buying something new.
In the future I will definitely do a swap party again! A clothes swap party will be for in five or ten years because now my wardrobe is organised and I’m not planning to buy a lot of new clothes. And if I buy something new I will better think about it. Another swap party will be coming soon. A friend was so enthusiastic that she’s thinking about organising a swap party where we can swap other things like DVD’s, books, candles, decorations, and so on… It’s wonderful that the idea of a swap party was received so well, and it will be part of the future … I hope this blog will make all you warm for the idea of doing a swap party! It’s fun, you can make others happy with the things you don’t need/want anymore, and they on their turn can make you happy. One person’s trash is another’s treasure!
Did any of you do a swap party already? What are your experiences? Or what do you do with clothes that don’t fit anymore or that you never wear?